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The 3 Questions I Ask Myself Before Making Any Major Leadership Decision

Leadership is filled with moments that demand clarity when emotions, expectations, and pressure are at their highest. Whether it’s a staffing change, a policy shift, or a decision that will ripple across an entire organization, leaders often find themselves at a crossroads where every path seems right and wrong at once. Early in my career, I tried to find comfort in the idea that good decisions were clear-cut. I’ve since learned that most of the best ones rarely are. They live in the gray space, where empathy meets accountability, where listening meets leading, and where doing what is right is not always the same as doing what is easy. Over the years, I’ve developed three simple questions that I ask myself before making any major decision. They serve as anchors that keep me grounded in purpose, people, and perspective when the winds of leadership start to shift. 1. Does this decision align with our purpose? Every organization and every leader has a “why.” It’s what transforms man...

The Impossible Dream and the Calling of Leadership

Every time I hear “The Impossible Dream” from Man of La Mancha , I am reminded why leadership, especially in education, is both a privilege and a test of courage. The song begins with a call “to dream the impossible dream,” and in many ways that captures the daily work of anyone who leads a school system. We imagine a world where every child discovers their purpose, every educator feels valued, and every community believes in its schools. These dreams are rarely easy and often feel impossible, but they are worth pursuing with everything we have. The lyrics “to right the unrightable wrong” speak to the heart of educational leadership. We confront inequities, navigate constraints, and face challenges that test our resolve. Leading with empathy and accountability means making difficult decisions for the sake of what is right, not what is easy. It means standing in the tension between compassion and courage and choosing to move forward anyway. “To bear with unbearable sorrow” captures t...

Kindergarten Lessons for Leaders: What Five-Year-Olds Taught Me About Growth

When I think back to my first day as a teacher, I can still feel the mix of excitement and nervous energy. After years of preparation, the moment had finally arrived. I stood before a classroom of kindergartners, each gripping a crayon as if it were the most important tool in the world. Their eyes were wide, their smiles unfiltered, and their curiosity boundless. I remember wondering if I was ready. Was I prepared enough? Would I be the teacher they needed me to be? Those questions would follow me for weeks, but what I didn’t realize at the time was that I was about to learn as much from my students as they would ever learn from me. The truth is, five-year-olds are natural experts in growth mindset. They make mistakes constantly, but they rarely see them as failures. When a tower of blocks falls, they rebuild. When they miss a word during reading, they try again. When a classmate succeeds, they cheer. Their focus isn’t on perfection, it’s on progress. As adults, we often lose that i...

Leading with Purpose Through Uncertainty and Change

Leading through times of uncertainty has become the defining challenge for today’s school and district leaders. The presentation Leading with Purpose Through Uncertainty and Change explores how anchoring in a clear sense of purpose provides stability when everything else feels unsettled. From staffing shortages and political pressures to shifting community expectations, leaders are navigating constant change. This resource highlights why purpose must serve as the north star, offering practical tools for aligning decisions, communicating with clarity, and fostering trust across teams and communities. It is designed to help leaders move beyond reactive management and instead guide with confidence, consistency, and a deeper “why” that inspires lasting impact. Leading with Purpose