Leading Through Loss: What Leadership Looks Like When Words Fall Short
I received news recently about someone I went to college with, someone I spent a significant amount of time with during those formative years, who died by suicide. We had not spoken in more than twenty years, yet the news landed heavily. It was a reminder that time and distance do not erase connection. Some people remain part of your story whether you actively think about them or not. That moment led me to reflect, not just personally, but professionally. As leaders, we like to believe we are prepared. We plan, we organize, we anticipate challenges. We build systems and processes to guide our work. But there are moments that no system accounts for. Moments that interrupt everything. Moments that shift priorities instantly and permanently. Loss is one of those moments. In schools, in organizations, and in communities, loss shows up without invitation. It might be the death of a colleague, a student, a parent, or someone connected more loosely but still meaningfully to those around us...